An Open
Letter to Everyone With a Bad or Unsatisfying Marriage
Dr. Max Vogt
America's Best Marriage Counselor
27 year veteran marriage therapist
Bestselling author of books on marriage
California Psychology License #13317
Nevada City, California
email: DrMax @ EasyMarriageCounseling.com
Unhappily Married Friend,
Let's talk about the most important thing in your life, which is your marriage and your relationship with your spouse. You may feel you can't make it better or have tried everything, but I have news for you. There is hope.
I hope you have a minute or two for me to tell you how to save your marriage and turn it around no matter how bad it is now. Maybe go grab a cup of coffee and come back. Let's settle in for a minute here and talk about your marriage and you.
Do not skip past this information. It's free and it can completely change your mind about marriage and marriage advice.
I'm going to make this very simple. Let's say ou just asked me "how am I going to save my marriage, I've tried everything I can think of!?"
Let me just talk with you as an advisor but also like a friend. You want to save your marriage and I'll answer your questions.
I'll show you how to save your marriage. If you do what I tell you you can turn a bad marriage into a great one.
If you don't do what I tell you to do, it's on your head and your marriage will most probably fail. I feel like since we are sitting here together you won't mind if I speak frankly and openly to you like that.
If you don't know me yet, my name is Dr. Max Vogt and I've already helped thousands of people have great marriages over the last 27 years in my practice and my books and videos and seminars and now it's your turn.
Here's why my methods are effective. I make things easy, clear and quick. I don't believe you are going to stick with this unless it's easy clear and quick. Also I assume you don't have a ton of money to just throw out the window on go-nowhere marriage counseling.
It's too frustrating to screw around with just "talking about it" endlessly. So let's get to it and see if I can help you out.
People say saving a marriage is hard work. Not really. Not if you want to and you know what to do. In that case it's no harder than anything else, and really quite a bit easier than a lot of things like golf or getting a promotion at work.
Are You Being Honest?
First of all, let's clear the air. Do you really want a better marriage or are you just hoping something better will come along?
Well let's find out. On a 1-10 scale with 10 being the highest, how badly do you want to have a good or great marriage with your spouse? If you said like "3" then that's not very good is it?
I just said that marriages can change for the better VERY FAST... but that happens only if you are interested. If you are just wishy washy or even repulsed by your mate all bets are off.
I've seen it happen with couples in my practice a thousand times over the last 27 years, quick but solid and practical change. It's not magic but it can feel like magic. Do some fail? Sure. A whole bunch of people fail at it because they never intended to do anything in the first place to save their marriage. They were just playing a game and not serious about it. If you stop this video right now, you are probably one of those people.
A lot of times it's because the therapist is too timid and doesn't want to interfere too much or tell people what to do. That has always seemed kookoo to me because what are you paying the therapist for if not to tell you what to do? I'll tell you exactly what to do. Why mess around?
There's a Lot of Crap Out There
My friend who is a big time advertiser says "never be negative," but I think you deserve to know the truth. Most of the relationship courses out there and the "relationship advice givers" are harmful to your health and your marriage. That's the hard truth.
I know there are other choices on the internet. High paid advertising writers have made products which are quite crappy sound like sliced peaches, like all you have to do is download their ebook and everything in life gets sweeter and sweeter. That's kinda looney if you ask me.
"Even
if you are the only one who wants to save your marriage?"
That's a plain outright lie!
That's a plain outright lie!
Some people are even promoting the ridiculous idea that you can save your marriage even if you are the only one who wants to. Now that just plain isn't common sense. You might want to believe that but it's wrong.
Apparently I'm not supposed to say that since about 99 out of 100 sites on the internet tell you that you can save your marriage all by yourself. That's goofy and it is an out and out lie.
Either they are trying to trick you into thinking you are going to defy all the laws of relationships (just to sell you their ebooks) or they really do not understand a thing about what relationships are really about.
Or they have been working with individuals behind closed doors in their little ivory towers too much to understand what couples work is all about. Or they are smoking something.
Or they want to keep you in some kind of trance believing the impossible can happen if you just cross your fingers a certain way and say certain things and act a certain way or use some kind of "mental approach" or some other mumbo jumbo. If you are looking for "The Secret" I think it's still available on Amazon; here on planet earth things work differently.
Here on Planet Earth Things are
Different
In my experienced judgment I see these hucksters trying to just trying to convince you that you can manipulate your way out of the bad behavior you did before - or manipulate your partner into loving you by some kind of clever techniques.
Manipulating people ("make him love you" "make your ex want you back" "turn-ons that will have her begging for more", etc etc) never really works for a long term relationship.
Hey if you are just a "player" or "hustler" good luck. But if you are a serious person in a marriage...
You know better. And you REALLY know better if you have bought one of those products.
You gotta work together to save your marriage. I don't think that's too hard to grasp. It doesn't have to be too hard or too demanding, but you do have to make an effort.
"They" think you are lazy and
stupid
I think you are smart and dedicated
I think you are smart and dedicated
Those internet know-nothings have a fraction of the knowledge and experience I do. They are just trying to steal your money, basing their "advice" on something they cooked up that supposedly worked for them.
I've taken 27 years of successful practice with couples from all kinds of backgrounds and put it into a short, easy to use program you can start using in the next five minutes. Work at it and you'll get somewhere. Let it sit on your computer and you'll get nowhere. Case closed.
If I hired a professional copywriter to tell you about this he'd tell me I shouldn't say that because you'll run away if I use the phrase "work at it." If I don't try to convince you it's magic. But I think that's just wrong.
I could definitely go into a long drawn-out explanation and tell you stories of people who experienced dramatic and almost miraculous healing in their marriage using my methods. You can see tons of testimonials on my site Easy Marriage Counseling, which is my complete Program if you are interested (although many of the best nuggets are right here in the Ten Days Program).
Some people are just bullheaded
and determined to divorce
And then I could tell you of bullheaded people determined to get divorced and disliking each other the moment they arrived at my office door. No I didn't "invent love" where there was any or perform magic.
No one can motivate someone else to love you. No one can "trick" someone or "be good enough" to get a marriage on course. It's not just a mental attitude or something like that. Again, where's the common sense? It's like if I meditated long enough the dishes would get clean. Last time I checked that doesn't work.
Let me say this. If you once loved each other and now don't have disgust for each other...
If deep down both of you have a deep burning desire to be together, I can show you exactly how to get to a really good marriage just like I've been doing with couples in my office, in seminars and in my books videos and audios over the last almost thirty years.
And it will all make sense to you. I don't like using jargon or nonsense or psychobabble. I think a lot of psychologists rattle on with a load of junk just to keep you there in the room long enough to collect their fees.
Marriage Therapy Sessions Should
Only Be
About Ten Minutes Long
About Ten Minutes Long
That may sound a little cynical but I'm here to tell you the truth. In fact most therapy sessions only need to be about ten minutes long, the rest of it is just filler because the therapist needs to get paid for the whole hour and can't really figure out how to give you any direct advice.
My only intention is to get you into a program right now that truly works and get you doing the things you need to do to save your marriage as soon as possible. Just doing something isn't good enough. You need to do something which will truly help your marriage. That's why I created the Ten Days to A Good Marriage Program... to cut through the nonsense and go right to the things that work.
Will you save your marriage in ten days? Can you unravel 20 or 30 years of bad behavior and wrong turns in your relationship in just ten days? Why not? It happens all the time.
Henry Ford had this expression: Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right.
It never was truer than it is with my Ten Days Program. If deep down you think you can have a good marriage going on a great marriage in ten days with my excellent and proven guidance, you can get there.
Seriously it isn't that tough, wnd why the hell would you want to get a divorce if you can fix your marriage... unless you have other methods like trying to dump your spouse and run off with someone else... Some people come into therapy just to try to make it look like they "tried." If you are one of those, or married to one of those, all bets are off.
If you can't believe in saving your marriage by practical methods and think you need some kind of magic, you can go dig up some know-nothing internet marketer who will tell you all kinds of cabbage. But you'll just buy one product after another and get nowhere. I've seen it over and over again.
Sooner or later they all end up
at
my door
You are already where you were meant to be, here at my site. Stop the searching right now. Everything you need to get you going in the right direction in your marriage is right here and right now.
Don't wait one more second or have one more sleepless night. Get my Save Your Marriage in Ten Days or Less Program and experience the guidance of a seasoned pro to get you on the right track just moments from now.
Thanks for your kind attention, and no matter what you decide to do, I wish you well in your marriage. Now let me tell you just exactly what's in it.
In
My Easy and Effective Ten Days to Save Your Marriage Program
You'll discover
You'll discover
- The Top 7 Mistakes people make about what
marriage really is
(If you make these mistakes, your marriage is more than likely doomed!)
- How to know the "helpful" and "positive" beliefs which inspire your marriage. (Only Dr. Max's Marriage Blueprints(TM) teach this method.)
- The 8 Signs that Your Marriage is Healthy (and how to identify them fast and make SURE you keep on the right track)
- How to make a fast change in your relationship NOW before it's too late (this is why we emphasize the TEN DAY method-- the longer you wait, the worse it is going to get)
- The specific words and phrases NOT to say if you want to save your marriage (just as important - if not more - as what TO say!)
- The "real" secrets to a solid marriage and love that lasts forever (Not 1 in 10,000 professional marriage counselors have even HEARD of this, but you will know it!)
- Why "hard work" on the relationship isn't really the answer (as a matter of fact, in many cases the harder you work the worse things get... you MUST do something different and EASIER)
- Exactly why most marriage counseling can be harmful and what to avoid (if you've ever been to marriage counseling you'll understand how this can be a HUGE issue... but not for you!)
- The specific reasons almost all marriage therapy fails and how you can succeed better than 99 out of 100 professional marriage counselors on your own (you'll know more than the vast majority of so-called marriage counselors)
- 7 specific steps to re-focus your emotion and handle your feelings (extremely important in eliminating arguments!)
- How to find the core Marriage Blueprint (TM) of your relationship in only 10 minutes (knowing this one powerful fact can immediately change your relationship)
- The (very clear and simple) definition of true intimacy and how this knowledge can instantly change your marriage! (This simple method has transformed hundreds of marriages in Dr. Max's practices... overnight!)
- Immediately master The Law of Intimacy and transform all your thoughts, feelings and actions in your marriage (this is only available from Dr. Max's site)
- Produce "instant tolerance" in every communication and positively charge everything you think and feel about your partner (Dr. Max is the ONLY one who teaches this)
- Use this "relationship judo" to quickly and permanently change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes instantaneously! (You may see dramatic changes in a matter of hours - thousands of people have) You have to be there to believe it.
- Using this dead simple method, so-called "arguments" can become an actual source of fun and even sexual enjoyment (some people feel this is the most advanced intimacy method ever devised).
- One simple quick methods turns you into a powerful, united team, even if you feel like you have never understood each other before (this method all by itself has magically transformed hundreds of marriages in ways that utterly SHOCKED the couples and put a huge grin on their faces)
- Use this to take all the "negative charge" out of money and finance conversations and transform them into springboards to make the dreams of your future come true!(some couples who have fought about money for 20 years have stopped this argument and started getting along incredibly.... within hours of using these methods)
And this is just the beginning to
all you will discover in this
jam-packed action program... and yet it only takes minutes a day
The Ten Days to Save Your Marriage Package will help you in transforming your marriage... and to have the marriage you always dreamed about!
Begin saving your marriage beginning in less than an hour, maybe in less than 10 minutes! Get on it!
In short, it's a clear, simple step-by-step guide to have the marriage of your dreams created by America's Top Marriage Counselor. So...
Here's how I'd like to help you if you will let me:
- Download the Ten Days to Save Your Marriage (and get the bonus of Dr. Max's bestselling book on Great Marriage (selling elsewhere for $39.95 all by itself) and the other bonuses).
- Then, do the exercises in both books and give it a good try. I'm totally convinced that your relationship will be dramatically improved in ten days.
In fact I Guarantee Results!
If you are not absolutely thrilled with the dramatic improvements in your marriage, just let me know by return email and I'll give you a personal address and you can write me with any and all questions you have, and I'll personally help you.
This professional response is worth over $300, what I charge for an individual session of 45 minutes these days.
I've never made a more generous offer and you've never heard of a more generous offer!
You see, I'm taking a much greater risk than you are because the books and audios are yours to keep but I am also offering to help you more if you are dissatisfied.
Your satisfaction - and your having a great marriage - are my concern. And I'm so convinced you'll be helpd that I'm willing to take all the risk.
My work has been described as both one of the most radical but also simplest and easiest methods EVER devised to help your marriage.
Whether you are just at the point of frustration - or have gone all the way to the brink of divorce - this proven and tested information will help you turn things around quickly and easily!
And what you have seen in this letter is only a tiny fraction of what you will receive in the Ten Days to Save Your Marriage program.
To Help You Even More, I've included a Special Never Before Offered Time Limited Bonus: My Bestselling Book For the First Time Available Electronically
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Plus special, unannounced secret bonus - a great classic book on marriage bliss (you'll discover how wonderful this one is... and it's included for you FREE in my complete dedication to help you succeed in saving your marriage!)
You can immediately download ALL of these books and start on your journey of marital happinesss right at this mone, even if it is 2 a.m. in the morning!
Plus you don't have to stand in a checkout line embarrassed because you are carrying around a book on marriage counseling!
Your purchase is made in total privacy and your personal copies of the book and bonus will be on your computer within minutes!
Plus because we don't have to pay for printing or shipping costs, you get a significant discount over printing and shipping of a physical course.
How much will you pay for a rapid and powerful increase in your marital happiness?
A very minimal amount!
It's a small fraction of what you would pay for either
-therapy (average of $5,000 for a couple)
-divorce (average of $48,000 for a couple)
You could easily spend thousands of $$$ for go-nowhere marriage counseling.
Divorce could cost you half of everything you own and endless nightmares of pain and suffering.
So when I tell you the price you'll be amazed how low it is given the power of the Ten Days to Save Your Marriage Program
Your total charge is only $49.95 for all I have described and much more (you'll see the surprise bonus when you download the products).
Cost of a great marriage: PRICELESS!
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We NEVER share or sell our customer's information with ANYONE...EVER!
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Don’t wait another second. It is time to begin to save your
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The time for action is now. . .
but only YOU can take it!
Yours sincerely in support of YOUR great marriage,
Dr. Max
Who did I do this for? Not for me. I have a great
marriage. Not even for the money, because my practice far
more
than takes care of my expenses.
I created these resources for
you... for you to save your marriage in the shortest,
fastest, easiest way possible.
I made this site and these downloadable products so you can get this
information anywhere in the world, any time night or day. I
guarantee it will work.
But the final action is yours.
If you are ready to save your marriage, click here to get started saving your
marriage.
With sincere hope you will find your way to a great marriage,
So... click here to start saving your
marriage right now
Dr. Max Vogt
America's Top Marriage Counselor
POB 2532, 200 Coyote St.
Nevada City, California, 95959
CouplesCoach.com @ gmail.com
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